December 05, 2003

Tell me why

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The other day, a friend of mine asked me why Doug and I are keeping this blog. She finds personal information on the net at least questionable and blogs in general an odd fad of the early 21st century that will hopefully die the quick death of all fads.

I was at a loss to explain to her our reasons and I'm still not quite sure about what compels us to post.

I could say it's sort of a diary of our experiences in Eastern Europe - but that doesn't quite cover it. After all, we are trying not to put too much TMI out there. If you grumble publically about your spouse/kids/neighbors/friends, you have to keep in mind that it's not only recorded for eternity but also that it's being read by people who don't know you at all and can't tell whether you're just being bitchy, off your meds, or entirely justified. Additionally, they might not be all that interested in the fact that your writing this post was interrupted by a poop explosion...

Thinking back, it was Carlos who first pointed me to the world of blogs of which I had been blissfully unaware. He sent me the link to a blog (I forget which one) and I was intrigued by the concept.
I thought we could have a blog to keep our scattered families up to date on our current living/moving/working/family situation(s). Sharon Casteel referred me to Movable Type, my brother helped me setting the whole thing up - and voila! we were online and publically writing. As these things go, my mother is the only family member who regularly reads this blog. Go figure.

Since then, the content has changed somewhat and the stress is now on reports about the country we live in at the moment, plus some kid stories to lighten things up a bit. (The title of the blog used to be accurate back when we lived in Belgrade; we decided not to change it despite the fact that the Danube is an hour's drive away now and quite close to its final destination.)

I've always been writing and this format gives me two things: an incentive to write regularly (after a fashion) and a forum to practice writing in English. I've been trying to write in English for some time now and as with so many things, I found that practice is everything. I won't say that it is helping me to write fiction because I'm not writing much fiction these days -- but maybe one day, it'll pay off. Until then, I get to torture you guys with my struggles with style, vocabulary and punctuation.

Last, not least, there is also the idea to supply the world with interesting, amusing or plainly weird facts about living in the Balkans - eh, sorry, I meant to say Southeastern Europe. Since writing a blog is a lonely occupation and feedback from the readers is sparse, we are just asuming that people are interested in reading what we write. Amazingly enough, there are some who seem to have taken a genuine liking to our blog.

At which point a loud Thank you! is in order - thanks to our readers and especially to those who also comment. We are very happy about each and every comment, even if we don't write back much (kids! we have kids! that means very little time!).
Anca & Misha, Carlos, Pouncer, Ellen, Cat, Marna... You are the guys we think of when we're writing. Keep those comments coming - or just read and enjoy.

Thank you all.

[Bowing to all sides and stepping off my soapbox. Phew.]

Posted by claudia at December 5, 2003 12:31 PM
Comments

It took me a long time to jump into the blog pool, but now that I've done it, I think it meets many of my modern communications needs. Maybe so many years of TV primed us all for this, who knows? But I like being able to just read along, knowing what is going on with people I consider my friends, day in and day out, with the option to interact when time and the inspiration of something to actually say permit.

I don't comment a lot, but I always smile when I see something new from you guys!

Posted by: Susan Crites at December 5, 2003 04:45 PM

Personally I use my blog as a personal vent tool. Whether just to rant, or to extoll something that I think is cool but no one I know personally would be interested in, it's a kind of escape valve.

Incidentally, Claudia, after reading your blog and listening to you in person, you hardly need to "practice" English. You're doing just fine now!

Posted by: Royce Day at December 5, 2003 07:05 PM

Susan - how lovely to hear from you! I'm just trying to check out your blog but I think you mistyped the URL. Can I have that again, please?

And Royce - sorry, I forgot to mention you as a commenter. And here I am still wondering what a "turducken" is. Which is - what?

Claudia - so many blogs, so little time... :-)

Posted by: claudia at December 7, 2003 08:42 PM

Now I might have to start a blog. The pressure!

"Turducken" is a chicken stuffed in a duck stuffed in a turkey. If memory serves, the very large Louisiana chef Paul Prudhomme invented it, and John Madden, the American football announcer (and no small man himself) popularized it. Served in slices, so you get some of all three meats.

The Land of Er. I am wondering why the chicken isn't stuffed with sausage, andouille perhaps.

C. -- currently in the land of the buttER burgER.

Posted by: Carlos at December 8, 2003 01:23 AM

Buna ziua,
Have come late to this blog thing and have been reading yours for the last couple of evenings. I live in Oregon, U.S.A. and was able to spend the summer of 2002 there in Bucharest and fell in love with the city and country (after the first couple of weeks of initial shock of course).
It's so fun to read about your Bucharest experiences and remember my own times there.
The few things I don't miss are the dogs barking all night and the seemingly perpetual car alarms.
I especially love your little trips outside of the city as I didn't get to do that as often as I would have liked while I was there. A beautiful train ride to Sighisoara was one of my few such trips. I'm hoping you describe a visit to my favorite place in Bucharest - Herastrau Park!
Anyway, just came across your Dec.5, 2003 entry and wanted to let you know that whatever your reasons for keeping the blog I'm glad you are doing it (or did it, haven't skipped ahead to the present yet. Don't want to ruin the story!).
And apparently practice does make perfect because it took me awhile to figure out if you were a native English speaker or not. You give me hope for mi Espanol.
(I was just curious if you were trying to learn Romanian too?)
Keep up the good work and multumesc for sharing your adventures.
Be safe and All the best,
Chris

Posted by: Chris at September 19, 2004 09:22 AM